Dear BYT: Why does religion hate women?

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May 11, 2004

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Ask the BYT

Dear BYT,

Why is it that almost every religion in the world contains doctrines that are very sexist, that discriminate against women in one way or another? Religions are supposed to provide opportunities for us to better ourselves, yet I find it hard to reconcile this idea with the gross sexism that is so much a part of every major religion. Do this bother you at all? In short, yes, this bothers me very much. And it should bother us all. Religious or no.

The historical explanation for religious sexism is beyond the scope of this little column. To the people of the Book (Jews, Christians, Muslims), Eve is the easily tempted troublemaker in the Garden. Paul does remind Christian women to be subservient to their husbands. So, let’s first recognize that sexism is Scriptural. This discrimination is likely related—in a question of chicken or egg—to the sexism that we see within secular society, explaining why women tend to make less money than men, why women hold fewer positions of economic, political, or social power. The same glass ceiling that weighs heavy in our offices and government buildings was installed early on in our churches, synagogues and mosques, in some places more firmly than others. It is interesting to note, however, that Christian churches are largely run by women (in lay administration, etc.), and that women are finding positions of religious authority easier to come by among some mainline Protestant denominations and within Conservative and Reform Jewish groups. Catholicism remains pretty terrible in terms of women, and unfortunately I don’t see things getting better at the moment. That said, last week a woman delivered the sermon at my church.

In recent years, feminists have made a mark in theological circles. There were more women at my seminary than there were men, for example, and we did more feminist and womanist (i.e., feminist plus black liberation) theology than any other sort. In liberal circles, and in academic settings broadly, inclusive language rules—God is no longer a He. God is hardly ever referred to with a pronoun. Sometimes “Ground of Being,” but rarely “Lord” or “King” or even “Father.”

The work of Mary Daly (esp. Beyond God the Father) was important in the ‘70s. Elizabeth Johnson’s writings (esp. She Who Is) are most impressive. Both women take the sexist churches to task and re-imagine God through biblical exegesis and a reconsideration of the tradition. They (and I) would have Christians remember that Jesus called women to be his disciples (Martha! Martha!), and that Paul had several satellite house churches that were run by women … proto-priests!

Reconciling sexism with compassion—what I’ve already in this column identified as the common message of the great world religions—is impossible. Sexism is simply irreligious.